A First-Timer’s Guide to New York City That Won’t Leave You Exhausted
- Macey Snelson
- Sep 29, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 1, 2025
There’s a moment in New York City that hits every first-timer. For me, it was walking the Brooklyn Bridge in 2014. The skyline stretched out ahead, the river sparkled below, and I thought, “This is it. I’m really in New York.” That moment of euphoria is unmatched.
That’s the kind of trip I want you to have too. Not a checklist of every attraction, but days filled with the right mix of magic, energy, and ease. Here’s how I’d do it if I could go back to the very beginning.
Start with the Icons, Then Slow Down
Yes, you should absolutely see Times Square and the Empire State Building, but the trick is not to spend all your time there. Begin your trip with a taste of the classics. Wander Grand Central Station, stroll through Central Park with a pretzel and coffee in hand, and score discounted Broadway tickets at TKTS. These spots give you the “I’m in New York” rush without keeping you stuck in crowds all day.
Bagels, Coffee, and People-Watching
Every New York trip needs a bagel moment. For me, it’s a plain bagel with schmear from Apollo Bagel in the Lower East Side. Pair it with a coffee from Mud, just one block over, and take both to Washington Square Park. Sit by the fountain, watch the city swirl around you, and remind yourself this is what travel is about - pausing long enough to feel part of the rhythm of the city.
Bridges and Ferries
If you only do one big walk, make it the Brooklyn Bridge. Early morning or sunset is best, and once you’re across, be sure to spend time in DUMBO. Stroll the waterfront, grab a treat at Time Out Market (check out the free rooftop view), and explore the Brooklyn Flea if it’s a weekend.
From there, take the East River Ferry back to Manhattan for gorgeous skyline views, then hop on the Staten Island Ferry for a free and beautiful look at Lady Liberty. You don’t need ticketed tours to have a postcard-worthy experience.
Neighborhood Wandering
This is where New York really shines. My personal favorite is the Lower East Side. It’s packed with murals, shops, and that creative energy you can only find in NYC.
The West Village is another must. Wandering its brownstone-lined streets feels like you’ve stepped straight into a movie. (If you’re a pop-culture fan, this is where you’ll find Carrie Bradshaw’s front stoop and the apartment from Friends.)
Take time to browse the four floors of Strand Bookstore or tuck into a café when your feet need a break. These moments balance out the big sights and keep your trip from feeling like a marathon.
Evenings with a View
End one night with a Broadway show, another with sunset views from the Top of the Rock or Empire State Building. Buy your tickets online ahead of time to skip lines. Both give you the magic of city lights flickering on against the night sky. My personal favorite is the Top of the Rock, so you can see the Empire State Building in all its glory.
The “Say Yes” Philosophy in NYC
The truth is, New York is a city of infinite options. You’ll never see it all in one trip, and that’s the beauty of it. Say yes to the experiences that light you up, whether it’s a bookstore wander, a ferry ride, or a slice of pizza on a random corner (I highly recommend Joe’s). Leave room to stumble into the magic you didn’t plan for, and then make many return trips to keep exploring.
A Quick 3-Day Suggested Itinerary
Here’s a snapshot to save for your own trip to the Big Apple:
Day 1
Grand Central Station, Bryant Park, and the New York Public Library
Central Park stroll with pretzel + coffee
TKTS for discounted Broadway tickets
Dinner in the Theater District
Day 2
Walk the Brooklyn Bridge in the morning
Explore DUMBO
Staten Island Ferry for Statue of Liberty views
Lower East Side murals, shops, and dinner
Day 3
Bagel + coffee in Washington Square Park
Wander the West Village streets
Strand Bookstore stop
Sunset at Top of the Rock or Empire State Building
About the Author
I’m Macey - photographer, traveler, and founder of Say Yes Travel Co. I believe travel should feel less like a checklist and more like connection, culture, and memories you’ll carry home. When I’m not behind the camera or planning group trips for women, you can find me wandering big cities with an iced coffee in hand and probably buying more books than I can fit in my carry-on.
Want more travel tips, itineraries, and real talk about saying yes to adventure? Follow me on Instagram @maceysnelson.
This is so great! Will be there in a few weeks and definitely borrowing this itinerary!